♥ Princessa's Royal Diary ♥ - Royalty has never been so PINK!

The title speaks for itself doesn't it?

You are going to be surprised and confused.

This has nothing to do with Teddybear and me in case you somehow had that assumption.

Anyhow.

When you first enter a relationship, sometimes you neglect to consider factors that may ruin it after some time.

That is one reason why you date for a while first before you actually make any commitments. Rushing into something may have horrifying results. And we all don't want that eh?

I speak from experience. And trust me, I had quite a few miserable ones. (Which I've somewhat erased from my memory, by force of course.)

Seriously. It is better to get to know a person a little better before jumping into a commitment that may lead to god knows what. The whole love at first sight thing kinda only works in Disney fairy tales. (But I love Disney fairy tales of course.)

But if the guy really ask and you kinda like him (for his good looks or whatever), you should probably say yes. A no would kinda kiss whatever chance you have with him good bye!

So if you really wanna extend the whole dating process, try to not give him the opportunity to ask. Do it with style of course.

Once you seal the deal it's good luck to you.

If you're wondering why I'm writing about this out of the blues, well... I can't tell you who, but someone close to me is having some problems. It's a really long story. And I'll be referring to her as Miss C and him as Mr C.

Miss C and Mr C have been 'together' for almost 3 years? And well, the last couple of months things went down the hill, fast. Very, very fast.

This couple of weeks, the sight of Mr C freaks Miss C out completely. (I'm still trying to figure out what he did though.)

A breakup is no big deal, but when it involves more then just the 2 individuals... It can be really, really, REALLY bad.

Apparently Miss C's mum has this 'connection' (really not the kind of connection you're thinking of, she just needs him for the IT support he can provide) with Mr C.

This is the annoying part of it all, for Miss C that is.

When they were together, Miss C's mum somewhat implied they shouldn't. However, now, when Miss C wants him outta her life, her mum constantly invites him over.

Ironic isn't it?

I have to pity Miss C since I'm closer to her and everything.

Okay, enough side tracking.

I know Miss C isn't head over heels about Mr C, but after 3 years in a relationship. How did it end up so... Bad? Is it worth giving up just like that?

This is quite sad, for Mr C that is.

During Miss C's birthday, Mr C kinda dropped by with her favorite ice-cream cake. (I did mention she freaks at the sight of him right?)

Instead of appreciating the thought. She got pissed and well... You know the rest of it.

Goodbye Mr C.

I'm quite sure he didn't cheat on her, but I know they have problems.

In a way or another, this may sound as though Miss C is in the wrong, but I'm not sure why, I have my doubts about it. And she isn't much of the sharing kinda person.

Here's a couple of questions to get you peeps thinking.

1. What do you think happened? (Between Miss C and Mr C that is.)

I have no idea. That's kinda why I'm jotting down my thoughts right now. Maybe someone can give me a clue to what the hell is going on?

2. If you were in Miss C's position how would you handle the situation?

I'd probably trash things out with him and see if there's any possibility of making things work. Avoiding really isn't my thing. Oh yeah, and I'd have to have a 'grown up talk' with my mum too.

3. If relationships can end up so wrong even after trying to maintaining for so long, is it worth putting in that much emotions and effort?

As you can obviously tell from the whole Princess, castle, fairies, and hello kitty gown get up. I'm a dreamer. Even after so many bad attempts, I'm still in the running.

I don't really expect anyone to answer these. Still, if you're reading... You know.