First and foremost, there weren't indications of whether or not the entry title is to be the topic title so... Pardon me if my assumptions are inaccurate.

The topic: "What will you do to find out if your crush is into you?"

Franking speaking, this is probably the toughest topic I'd ever have to write. Crushes now are usually superficial and short-lived, unless we're talking about Ming Dao here. That's one guy I'm still drooling over (been years really), but my Teddybear totally understands (I think). Plus, my bear kinda thinks he (as in himself) is better looking and that I'll probably never get to know Ming Dao as a friend-friend anyway. So, there's like totally no threat whatsoever.

I think I'm a pretty straightforward person, which kinda gets me into trouble sometimes. I find it pretty hard to hide my "emotions" unless I really put in the effort to, which is quite tiring after a while.

Due to my "straightforward" personality, I guess I've made a fool of myself so many times; I can't even give a ballpark figure – embarrassing yes, but quite hilarious if you think back.

Anyway, because the crushes I have these days are pretty hard to obtain, there's pretty much nothing I can do about it, needless say find out if he's into me. I can't possibly call up Ming Dao's agent and ask,

"Hey, do you think Ming Dao can fly over to Singapore to have a date with me?"

What are the odds? So yeah, it's really isn't important to know if he's into me or not. Point is - he is still eye-candy.

Now, if I have to put myself in a hypothetical situation...

IF! I am not totally head over heel towards my beloved Teddybear.
IF! Ming Dao isn't a superstar and just a boy next door.
IF! I have the opportunity to become a friend-friend with him.
IF! We have common friends or such.
...

This is probably what I would do.

First, I'll swindle my way into his good books, as well as his friends. Not too much, not too little, but just enough to get him to notice my existence. Buddy up with his friends and go out with them as a group or such.

As friends (with his friends), I can casually ask whether he is seeing anyone and what kind of girls he would like. I'm pretty straightforward as I've mentioned like a dozen times over already, so my approach would probably be a bit more obvious than subtle.

(I don't really mind making known of my interest. It has happen quite a number of times already in fact, back when I was still a teenage girl that is.)

I'd definitely add the phrase, "don't tell him okay, I will pei seh (be embarrassed)". His friends would probably make fun of me and all, and go something like "okay la, okay la".

At the end of the day, they would still probably hint to him of my interest (and make fun of him in the process), which is the plan.

Depending on what kind of person he is, if he isn't interested, he would probably ignore/avoid me, confront me, or otherwise treat me as per normal. But if he has a little interest to explore the possibility, he would probably blush when he sees me (yes guys blushes too), or perhaps, show a little initiative. But of course, this is based on my experience so far, it may result in vary. (I am not admitting anything, or denying anything.)

It's just a crush and all, so I don't see the need in going too much out of the way. Doing so may result in stupefying me more than I want it to. So, I'll just keep the hints going and pay attention to reactions therefore.

If reactions show his "interest in exploring" and that he is shy to move forward. I might initiate in asking him out casually - like for lunch, dinner or such.

I'm a typical girl, so my methods are pretty typical as well. However, statistics has often shown that the simplest techniques are usually the most effective ones.

Now, I've embarrassed myself quite a bit. For sharing this piece of information all I ask for is... GIMME THE MOVIE TICKETS! Thank you very much! :)

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